2 Samuel 10:2
“David said, “I will show kindness to Hanun the son of Nahash, as his father showed kindness to me.” So David sent by his servants to comfort him concerning his father. David’s servants came into the land of the children of Ammon.”
What does 2 Samuel 10:2 mean?
When someone has shown you genuine kindness, it's natural to want to honor that by treating their family well. David remembered that Hanun's father, the king of Ammon, had treated him with respect during difficult times, so David decided to extend the same courtesy to the son when the father passed away. He sent messengers to offer comfort and condolences, which was both a gracious gesture and a way of maintaining peace between their nations. This moment shows David at his best, responding to loss with generosity and loyalty rather than taking advantage of a vulnerable moment. Of course, what happens next in this story becomes a tragic misunderstanding, but this opening verse reminds us how powerful it can be when we choose to repay kindness with kindness, especially when we have no obligation to do so.